<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.sdf.org/@mikaeleiman" class="u-url mention">@<span>mikaeleiman</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://hachyderm.io/@fasterthanlime" class="u-url mention">@<span>fasterthanlime</span></a></span> That is very relatable and that’s also why I am thankful to be around people who give me time to have more positive experiences with them, and thus correct the previous misconceptions I had about them / their behavior / their intentions</p>

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://hachyderm.io/@fasterthanlime" class="u-url mention">@<span>fasterthanlime</span></a></span> Another takeaway: if someone has an issue with you accurately retelling what they did, if they say it’s unfair of you to bring it up, that it hurts them to even hear it, try to minimize facts, then bow out. Healing starts with the truth, there’s no other way.</p>

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://types.pl/@ionchy" class="u-url mention">@<span>ionchy</span></a></span> I already say that actually</p>

<h1>Performance of Racket Pict Comparison, Part 2</h1><p>by Ben D. Ben Knoble</p><p><a href="https://benknoble.github.io/blog/2024/09/14/benchmarking-pict-equality-pt-2/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">benknoble.github.io/blog/2024/</span><span class="invisible">09/14/benchmarking-pict-equality-pt-2/</span></a></p>

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://fedi.absturztau.be/users/chozu" class="u-url mention">@<span>chozu</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://donotsta.re/users/mei" class="u-url mention">@<span>mei</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@wingo" class="u-url mention">@<span>wingo</span></a></span> oh no this seems fine actually</p><p>i didn&#39;t realize they fixed this, nice</p>

@whitequark@mastodon.social @mei@donotsta.re @wingo@mastodon.social up to you to decide if that's even worse

<p><span class="h-card"><a href="https://hachyderm.io/@fasterthanlime" class="u-url mention">@<span>fasterthanlime</span></a></span> Then the next time we interact I have this imagied wrongdoing in the back of my head, making it even more likely that I interpret something else in a negative way. </p><p>Turns into a downward spiral pretty quickly, making me avoid people for bad reasons, making my life less fulfilling.</p><p>TLDR; Brains are bad.</p>

@whitequark@mastodon.social @mei@donotsta.re @wingo@mastodon.social no, it's escaped, you get like /tmp/file\012withnewline in that procfs file

<p><span class="h-card"><a href="https://hachyderm.io/@fasterthanlime" class="u-url mention">@<span>fasterthanlime</span></a></span> Speaking of what others do, I find it very easy to assume the reasons and motivations of others when observing what they do. I might be correct, but I might as well be wrong - and more often than not I&#39;m at least subtly wrong. </p><p>What I see might be &quot;you didn&#39;t wave back when I waved at you from a distance in the store&quot;, but what I interpret is &quot;you don&#39;t want to talk to me&quot; (when in fact you actually didn&#39;t see me wave).</p><p>(cont)</p>