<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@whitequark" class="u-url mention">@<span>whitequark</span></a></span> yup (hence the vague)</p><p>intuition suggests #2 for me so I voted #1</p>

<p>i should try doing it with her and by myself and see if there&#39;s any difference in the reduction of anxiety</p>

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://social.ridetrans.it/@analogist" class="u-url mention">@<span>analogist</span></a></span> is that a reference</p>

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@whitequark" class="u-url mention">@<span>whitequark</span></a></span> so you’re saying that Attention is all you need</p>

<p><span class="h-card"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@gamingonlinux" class="u-url mention">@<span>gamingonlinux</span></a></span> Loved the demo but had totally forgotten about it. Good news.</p>

<p>💭 maybe what actually helps is just attention</p>

<p>upsettingly, what she recommends is one of the stereotypical suggestions for anxiety and it never fuckin did anything until she suggested i do it with her</p><p>i dunno even</p>

<p>my headmate: &quot;you seem anxious. have you considered [thing that would actually help and that i know would help]?&quot;<br />me: *silently grabs smartphone*<br />(1 hour later)<br />me: &quot;huh, i should have done that other thing&quot;</p>

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