<p>I always feel so mildly famous when the gays in my timeline start waking up and boosting my posts 💖​:puniko_giggle4:​</p>

Friday!

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://pony.social/@sanfierro" class="u-url mention">@<span>sanfierro</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://icosahedron.website/@mary" class="u-url mention">@<span>mary</span></a></span> an institutional example is a doctor who hears that you&#39;re trans, imagines the most cisheteronormative end result, and either (ineffectually) attempts to get you to that end result e.g. by insisting on surgeries you may not want or need, or else attempts to dissuade you because in their view you will never become desirable in a cisheteronormative way</p>

<p>Fedi girls be like... (src: <a href="https://www.pixiv.net/en/artworks/24997189">https://www.pixiv.net/en/artworks/24997189</a> ) <a href="https://mk.absturztau.be/tags/animeirl" rel="tag">#animeirl</a></p>

<p><a href="https://lain.com/users/lain" class="u-url mention">@lain@lain.com</a> <a href="https://brotka.st/users/kaia" class="u-url mention">@kaia@brotka.st</a> what's a lez zone?</p>

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://pony.social/@sanfierro" class="u-url mention">@<span>sanfierro</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://icosahedron.website/@mary" class="u-url mention">@<span>mary</span></a></span> oh, I&#39;m not talking about phrasing or language being used</p><p>there is a type of person (you can meet them in any demographic group or at any institution) who believes that &quot;healing&quot; constitutes a return to some ideal &quot;whole&quot; state, and, importantly, they choose themself as the prescriber of that ideal state</p><p>then they usually try to coerce you into following their orders which supposedly bring you into that state</p>

<p>happy day of trans visibility lol</p>

after @kaia@brotka.st found a bf

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@whitequark" class="u-url mention">@<span>whitequark</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://icosahedron.website/@mary" class="u-url mention">@<span>mary</span></a></span> This is why I use Fedi: to see things like this and hopefully become more open minded (ideally I want my inner reaction to never be &quot;wut&quot; and instead considering what I&#39;m missing). If this is not too hard/stressful/frustrating/otherwise bad for you, can you please explain? I tend to say &quot;I wish you a speedy recovery&quot; when someone says they&#39;re sick, is it a different thing that&#39;s not bad or is it bad?</p>