<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@danrabinowitz" class="u-url mention">@<span>danrabinowitz</span></a></span> I haven’t tried it yet, but I’ve had a tab open with Orbstack for months now. <a href="https://orbstack.dev/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">orbstack.dev/</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p>

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@whitequark" class="u-url mention">@<span>whitequark</span></a></span> For example, if I know that some website I visit sometimes shows information that makes me sad or scared or whatever, I just ban this site from my days, or people that I know make me anxious sometimes, I just block them, or online communities, I just leave them, and so on. I try to remove everything even slightly bad so that the pain spiral never ever begins. And for things I cannot just &quot;remove&quot;, I try to handle at my pace and also I try to ignore alot, otherwise its unbearable</p>

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@whitequark" class="u-url mention">@<span>whitequark</span></a></span> It helped me.. but no idea for you. And about tension headaches which I think I have now, I realized that I really need to control what things happen to me so that I do not spiral in pain, that the environment must always stay cozy and calm and peaceful all the time and anything that is contrary to this I just expel it from my days right away and keep going hopefully. So for me, removing the anxious/bad/stressful, or else try make up fake cozy story try pretend everything&#39;s still ok</p>

<p>Preparing to set up a new personal dev machine. Thinking about docker vs podman vs... Any suggestions?</p>

<p>how do i get author / year citations along with a clickable link in latex it won&#39;t work</p>

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://tech.lgbt/@maxinehayes" class="u-url mention">@<span>maxinehayes</span></a></span> (what annoys me even more is that going back to bed is a recipe for ending up exponentially more tired later, somehow)</p>

<p>oh my god vfs is so incompetent ... i sent them an email requesting them to undo a refund request i made, as i had assumed they would let me select a different option when i undid my current selection, but they did not in fact let me select a new option ... they emailed back and were like &quot;sure give us some more details&quot; and i did and they were like &quot;give us a couple more days to process this&quot;. then i get an email saying &quot;we are pleased to tell you as per your request your refund has been processed&quot; ???? bro the fuck i literally asked for the opposite thing</p><p>like i mailed my passport out with a return label that they made me pay for; now if they undo the validity of the label my passport will literally just be in incompetent hands and idek what would happen then</p>

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://tech.lgbt/@maxinehayes" class="u-url mention">@<span>maxinehayes</span></a></span> I have fibromyalgia and &quot;pushing through&quot; is generally speaking a recipe for being unable to work on a timescale much higher than a day</p><p>I was sexually abused too and that&#39;s honestly kind of nothing emotionally, when it&#39;s compared to friends dying</p>

it actually is lol wtf