<p>I think it should be legal to ask people how old they are. I’m not gonna discriminate im just nosy</p>

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://types.pl/@pigworker" class="u-url mention">@<span>pigworker</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://types.pl/@ionchy" class="u-url mention">@<span>ionchy</span></a></span> when you were a kid ???? how old is he</p>

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.art/@ahuggingsam" class="u-url mention">@<span>ahuggingsam</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://hachyderm.io/@fasterthanlime" class="u-url mention">@<span>fasterthanlime</span></a></span> 🫂</p>

<p>stream in ~20 minutes</p>

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://types.pl/@ionchy" class="u-url mention">@<span>ionchy</span></a></span> yippee!</p>

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://hachyderm.io/@fasterthanlime" class="u-url mention">@<span>fasterthanlime</span></a></span> …and I say this as a recovering minimizer/gaslighter myself.</p><p>In kind of ashamed it only clicked in my 30s — that of course, OF COURSE trying to rewrite history to avoid conflict is just accumulating emotional debt.</p><p>My brain knew, now my heart does too.</p>

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@gamingonlinux" class="u-url mention">@<span>gamingonlinux</span></a></span> game dev on Linux is sadly not a great experience. Much simpler to just develop against one code base and then test if things run well on Proton.</p>

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.sdf.org/@mikaeleiman" class="u-url mention">@<span>mikaeleiman</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://hachyderm.io/@fasterthanlime" class="u-url mention">@<span>fasterthanlime</span></a></span> That is very relatable and that’s also why I am thankful to be around people who give me time to have more positive experiences with them, and thus correct the previous misconceptions I had about them / their behavior / their intentions</p>

<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://hachyderm.io/@fasterthanlime" class="u-url mention">@<span>fasterthanlime</span></a></span> Another takeaway: if someone has an issue with you accurately retelling what they did, if they say it’s unfair of you to bring it up, that it hurts them to even hear it, try to minimize facts, then bow out. Healing starts with the truth, there’s no other way.</p>