<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@whitequark" class="u-url mention">@<span>whitequark</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://icosahedron.website/@mary" class="u-url mention">@<span>mary</span></a></span> This is why I use Fedi: to see things like this and hopefully become more open minded (ideally I want my inner reaction to never be "wut" and instead considering what I'm missing). If this is not too hard/stressful/frustrating/otherwise bad for you, can you please explain? I tend to say "I wish you a speedy recovery" when someone says they're sick, is it a different thing that's not bad or is it bad?</p>