<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@BjornW" class="u-url mention">@<span>BjornW</span></a></span> </p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.world/@Mer__edith" class="u-url mention">@<span>Mer__edith</span></a></span> was making the point that the quietly abusive nature of Jia Tan's interactions with Lassie Collin, which would have faced a healthy rebuke in other cultural groups, was able to guilt-trip the poor M.Collin in a moment of weakness because such entitled demands on FOSS devs/maintainers are alas quite common, and sometimes (too often) validated by other persons intervening in public FOSS discussions, to the extent that it takes a lot of mental energy to deny them.</p>