<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://eepy.moe/@julia" class="u-url mention">@<span>julia</span></a></span> i actually still mostly don't know because of the very few post-op people i know, some are like "Yeah I have severe chronic pain and it was bad but it was better than the alternative" and some are "Yeah now I can never think about genitals again" which is... not at all the sort of thing that's useful for me in this situation</p>