<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://chaosfem.tw/@laura_fae" class="u-url mention">@<span>laura_fae</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://social.treehouse.systems/@YKantRachelRead" class="u-url mention">@<span>YKantRachelRead</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://enby.life/@hazelnoot" class="u-url mention">@<span>hazelnoot</span></a></span> but we aren't. we aren't a "community", either broadly or narrowly. other queers have done more than anyone else in my adult life to harm me, often in ways that are not possible to recover from; leaps and bounds worse than what any cishet person did</p><p>and you tell me that i should strive for solidarity? that sure doesn't sound appealing to me after that experience</p>