<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@fontenot" class="u-url mention">@<span>fontenot</span></a></span> i would say it is contextual, like everything in life</p><p>like if you ask someone what their favorite ramen place is, it would be understood to be async</p><p>but if you tell someone they hurt you a lot and you don't know how to be in a relationship with them anymore, and they leave you on read... that's a different story</p>