<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://chaos.social/@gsuberland" class="u-url mention">@<span>gsuberland</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://wandering.shop/@Canageek" class="u-url mention">@<span>Canageek</span></a></span> or, rephrasing: if you're not regularly comparing yourself doing a thing with someone much faster at it than you, there's a good chance you think of yourself as "slightly better than average" at it at least, which can be true but usually will be laughably incorrect since nothing external has ever motivated you to improve</p>