<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://chaos.social/@ChuckMcManis" class="u-url mention">@<span>ChuckMcManis</span></a></span> I've been practicing that since 2021, for extremely cursed reasons I'm not going to go into</p><p>it has taught me that ideally you do both: you understand others deeply yet don't rely on them anyway, as much as you reasonably can avoid it</p>
