<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://woof.tech/@unlobito" class="u-url mention">@<span>unlobito</span></a></span> i'm like this about plurality, although there is the eternal dilemma of what you want: integration or alienation</p><p>(we've been going for the integration because it seemed like the more difficult route, and it produced completely batshit results: for example, my 55-year-old father thinks plurality is completely reasonable and has no issue interacting with us, except that he misgenders me but not my headmate)</p>