<p>people say "trauma is not a competition" but consider this</p><p>imagine you have two very traumatized friends who ask you for help. you can only help one (you tell yourself so that you can live with yourself. your actual capacity is helping zero friends). how will you pick? a coin toss? the one you like more? the one who has it worse?</p><p>if it's the last one: congratulations, you've made it into a competition! both of them are very perceptive and know this</p>
