<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://tech.lgbt/@CatoTheYoungest" class="u-url mention">@<span>CatoTheYoungest</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://astolfo.social/@natty" class="u-url mention">@<span>natty</span></a></span> yeah we didn't even ask, just to avoid the off chance where they get spooked and reject us outright</p><p>it would have certainly been rejected, they clearly didn't care about wellbeing that much, so wouldn't care about our wishes either</p><p>very unfortunately</p>