<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://pony.social/@sanfierro" class="u-url mention">@<span>sanfierro</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://icosahedron.website/@mary" class="u-url mention">@<span>mary</span></a></span> a non-institutional example is a fellow queer woman deciding that she knows what you need to recover from cptsd, and it is specifically "finding your true self" and "disposing of the false self", and it involves serotonergic psychoactive drugs (mdma, lsd), and sometimes also intentionally creating precarity, or choosing to interact with you when you are particularly precarious for some other reason; both of which make it much easier for her to mold you to her wishes</p>