<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://pony.social/@sanfierro" class="u-url mention">@<span>sanfierro</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://icosahedron.website/@mary" class="u-url mention">@<span>mary</span></a></span> an institutional example is a doctor who hears that you're trans, imagines the most cisheteronormative end result, and either (ineffectually) attempts to get you to that end result e.g. by insisting on surgeries you may not want or need, or else attempts to dissuade you because in their view you will never become desirable in a cisheteronormative way</p>
