<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@whitequark" class="u-url mention">@<span>whitequark</span></a></span> these were actually the most stable people i knew in the bay. although maybe because that was because they were in their late 40s, and therefore they were the final result of a process that had gradually winnowed out everyone with any capacity for drama</p>