<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://linuxrocks.online/@omnipotens" class="u-url mention">@<span>omnipotens</span></a></span> it’s definitely a bit of both. I know that for example I’ve dated girls who don’t wear makeup or don’t shave their legs or are overweight and have found them really attractive. I definitely hold myself to more strict standards than I would hold someone else to. But, passing and pretty privilege are very real and the kinds of experiences you have as a non-passing woman can be both emotionally devastating and physically dangerous and cis women are increasingly experiencing this as well</p>