<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://hachyderm.io/@fasterthanlime" class="u-url mention">@<span>fasterthanlime</span></a></span> Another takeaway: if someone has an issue with you accurately retelling what they did, if they say it’s unfair of you to bring it up, that it hurts them to even hear it, try to minimize facts, then bow out. Healing starts with the truth, there’s no other way.</p>