<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://hachyderm.io/@fasterthanlime" class="u-url mention">@<span>fasterthanlime</span></a></span> In a way going through divorce was healing, because all the pressure was off and we could just clearly state all the things that had happened, their consequences, the plan ahead etc. Just like I enjoyed being stung: it’s bad, but not “unfathomably” bad</p>