<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://is.badat.dev/users/meithecatte" class="u-url mention">@<span>meithecatte</span></a></span> i mostly stopped thinking of gender[-related changes] as something i care about because it will give me a positive reward and more it is something i care about because it will take away a positive punishment through far too much effort i can't apply</p><p>i sure feel do trapped about it</p><p>i try not to think about it too much</p>