also a lot of privileged men in tech just have like no connection to reality and think they're smart because they're part of a social class that gets assumed to be smart, but it's such a fragile position which you know from the moment you talk with them, and they all talk about being like "antifragile" well if you don't wanna have a fragile ego how about you have some humility, you can't fall from your intellectual larp if you don't do it!