<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@whitequark" class="u-url mention">@<span>whitequark</span></a></span> <br />Yes, that makes it clearer.</p><p>Have you read David Brooks "How To Know a Person" ? It has some great tools for understanding what other people are all about and whether or not they are sincere or just gaslighting you. I can recommend it.</p>