<p>i've realized something just now</p><p>i've been unhappy for the last few years about the staggering degree of immaturity some of the people i know exhibited; some of them five years senior, some of them almost two decades so</p><p>namely, that i (or my predecessor) have ended up at ~twenty with zero capital, ~no support network, no stable job, no diagnosis or treatment for ptsd or f64.0, and some other "no"s, and built a reasonably feeling life out of it</p><p>this gives you an atypical degree of maturity</p>